Confidence is a man’s “best tonic”

Xu Jinglei has recently annoyed. Over 40, he, although in their careers have become quite accomplished, but the quality of sex life has deteriorated. He had to resort to a variety of health care products, but the actual effect of poor. Fortunately, his wife found a “recipe.” She did not blame her husband, “useless”, but an active console and encourage him. Slowly, Xu Jinglei in sexual life, there has been previous initiatives and vitality. He laments not help, compared to those health care products, self-confidence is the best tonic and the help of “drug.”

Guangdong, China Hospital Andrology expert told the reporter that there are two men on the sex life feedback. If you occasionally frustrated sex life, they saw themselves as “Bu Xingle,” or even rely on food or drugs, mind, it will be trapped in a “No more feel, the more impossible,” a vicious circle, which is “negative feedback.” On the contrary, if they feel their “very OK” in the sexual life is neither nervous nor afraid, easy to pair, but smooth communication between husband and wife can get a better erection quality, improve the quality of sexual life, which is “positive feedback” . The biggest difference between two kinds of feedback is that men have not enough confidence rather, “a concept to heaven, read a falling hell” a decisive role.

Because of this, their energies and hopes are placed in health food and “help” of food, men not as good as good care of their own confidence. Everyone has no composure whenever time inevitably unsatisfactory sex life, which with the work pressure, fatigue, mood and so on are good and bad relationships. If an unhappy, put themselves included in the “no” in the ranks, then it is underestimated the potential of a man; if produced “no drug on the impossible,” the idea is misguided. I believe our own strength, is the “right way” is located.

A man’s confidence in the care of the wife’s role is also vital. Because the wife is important to judge the quality of life of the party, but also to mobilize the key to a man’s confidence. Sexual life quality is unsatisfactory, but also the most vulnerable when the man, his wife gently encourage or cynical, will bring different results. Xu Jinglei’s wife did not because her husband 1:00 “weak” to be blamed, but the positive lead from the front, and eventually achieve a “win-win.”

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