Premature ejaculation and psychological
Interview Experts: Third Affiliated Hospital of Sun Yat-sen infertility and Zhang Bin, director of sexual medicine
“Premature ejaculation”, which was as disease, and the dignity with men linked to the words, so many of the “12 minutes, gentlemen,” teeth the day, irritability, and even to avoid intimacy.
Third Affiliated Hospital of Sun Yat-sen infertility and said Zhang Bin, director of sexual medicine, premature ejaculation in fact not a disease, is a nervous reaction and the contradiction between the psychological needs. It has no ill health effects, mainly affecting the patient’s psychological and spiritual. According to a rough clinical survey found that nearly 50% of the patients with premature ejaculation is a direct result of psychological reasons, the other 50% is the majority and psychological factors, most patients can through behavioral training and psychological treatment to be cured.
“More than 70% of men from the penis into the vagina until the completion of ejaculation time in 2-6 minutes, and some men, although only the maintenance of 23 minutes, but both sides met, not his own anguish, anxiety, etc., such a person is ‘ejaculation fast’, but can not be considered premature ejaculation, do not be too ready to fasten their own ‘Premature Ejaculation’ hat. “Zhang Bin said.
Case 1
This year, 27-year-old, working in Shenzhen, the Xiaojiang the past few years was “premature ejaculation” tortured physically and mentally exhausted. It turned out that he read in junior high, due to the lack of family care for life, but also to learn pressure, he was very depressed. A chance, he read an erotic novel, in the dead of night, he obtained through masturbation great physical pleasure and mental comfort will never be never tired. With increasing age, Xiao Jiang gradually realized that excessive masturbation is unhealthy, but always can not help but continue to masturbate. Kobayashi met his girlfriend, he suddenly discovered that, as long as, and Kobayashi, a hug would be excited ejaculation. Today, the two soon married, and Xiao Jiang is very distressed, afraid Kobayashi was originally reluctant to marry him immediately discarded.
Expert diagnosis: Many men with premature ejaculation in adolescents have had acts of masturbation. While masturbation itself does not lead to premature ejaculation, but there are a number of those due to environmental constraints masturbation, masturbation were found when the total fear, sneer at, so choose the time of masturbation is not only a short-lived, while also extremely nervous feelings, their actions during masturbation Rhythm quickly, eager to reach climax as soon as possible. Over time, they formed the habit of rapid ejaculation. In the husband and wife sex life, as long as mutual understanding and communication between husband and wife, and an active sex life to adapt, coupled with drug-assisted, Xiaojiang this problem can be solved completely.
Case 2
25-year-old Mr. Zhao took several months in Canton hospital’s out-patient clinical data came to Zhang Bin. He admits himself with his girlfriend kissing, touching, when no response, no desire, Huan-ai for the first time will soon “out”, the second barely able to maintain for 10 minutes, but the hardness is not enough. This is just a teenager, he developed a hard time too, such as “pipe” in general, arbitrary control the time of the carefree feeling very different. Zhang Bin, he begged to help him cure “premature ejaculation” in the hope can persist for at least 10 minutes.
Expert diagnosis: “Heroes do not mention their past glories,” men can not always be maintained at teenage peak. Mr. Zhao is not a matter of fact, “premature ejaculation” is asking too much of their own. In fact, most people have sex an average of 2 minutes time -6 minutes, most of the women’s time of 5 minutes or so sex can be achieved to meet. Control of ejaculation time is also concerned with individual physical fitness, some people kidney can not be fixed essence. However, in this area require a higher male can be achieved through practice, gradually improve.
Three reasons can result in premature ejaculation
According to Zhang Bin introduction, may lead to premature ejaculation, psychological factors are the following three aspects:
① the lack of correct knowledge. Inappropriate sex education, let their children that sex is a low-level nasty things; erotica, video and promotional pathological sexual behavior to mislead people over-emphasis on sexuality, always think they lack “strong and lasting.”
② the lack of male self-confidence. For example in his own “short penis” excessive worry, fear can not meet his wife; too much emphasis on the husband to his wife, the responsibility of sexual gratification, or occasionally one or two premature ejaculation, fear and trepidation on the day, and so on.
③ the relationship between marital discord, the husband with sexual intercourse unpleasant mood; or husband having an affair on his wife, a lack of interest; the woman did not cause her husband’s sexual arousal and so on.
Treatment: heart disease medicine for the heart
“Premature ejaculation” treatment in the end the key is to make patients understand what is “premature ejaculation.” Zhang Bin said that apart from a small partly because the foreskin is too long, penile deformity, prostatitis and other diseases caused by irrational “premature ejaculation” to go to hospital for special treatment, the majority of the “premature ejaculation” patients taking oral medication can inhibit sexual arousal center degree of excitement or to make an erection earlier, faster, and in order to “fall out” of fighting for some time before. Can also be purchased for external use (30 yuan), direct smear to the glans penis, the lower its sensitivity.
Zhang Bin said, psychological treatment and behavioral therapy is still the best way to treat premature ejaculation, there are efficiency of 80% -90%. As long as the male sex in the spirit of self-ease pressure, with a relaxed state of mind was focusing on the enjoyment of sex, rather than the deliberate pursuit of the length of time, generally able to obtain a satisfactory sex life. Of course, the woman is of the essence.
Behavioral training and psychological therapy
Self-confidence. First of all, men should be convinced that their sexual function in normal health, and occasional premature ejaculation got just as cold as soon cured, this should not bear a grudge.
Implied. Some men even to the female call, are likely to ejaculate. In this regard, men should be kept implying that he: “I must be able to control their ejaculation time, not to prematurely discharge of semen,” or to imagine a very ugly companions to reduce cerebral excitement.
环境. Choose the best time and environment, such as early morning wake up after the holidays, or after midnight without any environmental interference, these environmental conditions, man can be more relaxed.
Behavior therapy. Adhere to the waist moderate exercise every day.