Sexy training method to conquer impotence premature ejaculation
First, what is sexy intensive training therapy
Sexy focus on training is a basic method of treatment. Originally developed by the U.S. Congress of Sexology Master Masitesi and Johnson in the 20th century, 70 years founded the modern field of a major treatment innovations and breakthroughs
. Its emergence has shaken the psychoanalytic therapy in the field of sex therapy as long as half a century of dominance. This approach in the United States and some other developed countries has been widely circulated.
The current study suggests that psychogenic sexual dysfunction and its essence is caused by anxiety, especially sexual activity interoperability failures caused by anxiety. In sexual life, fear of failure due to repeated anxiety nervousness, depressed nature of sexual function and sexual function will inevitably lead to sexual repression has failed. “Anxiety – failure – Anxiety,” last long, this vicious cycle has formed a wrong patterns of behavior that appear sexual dysfunction.
In fact, in ancient times people had been through the experience of the treatment of sexual problems. Several thousand years ago, one was “God” depriving the sexuality of the Greeks, to Amoluodi temples to seek help, where there is a highly erotic arts training prostitutes, and who share the particular religious ceremonies like the Greeks sex experience, and thus the treatment of erectile dysfunction Greeks.
Sexy intensive training through a gradual physical contact between husband and wife (hugging, touching, massage and other means of tactile stimulation), to eliminate past sex life in the anxiety, fear and other negative emotions and experiences to increase the intimate contact in the process of euphoria, harmonious relationship between husband and wife . In a gradual learning process of the correct pattern of sexual behavior, sexual function will gradually restore the natural nature of its dysfunction will have disappeared.
2, sexy intensive training aimed at the types of patients?
Sexy intensive training therapy is targeted dysfunction treatment technology, not only for men with erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, and do not ejaculate, etc. on women’s frigidity, sexual difficulties, vaginismus and sexual orgasm is also a lack of a more
Good effect.
Third, how sexy intensive training
Sexy intensive training consists of two phases, namely: non-genital sexual feelings of intensive training and genital sexual feelings of intensive training can be carried out through the four-step.
Phase I: Non-genital sex of intensive training.
The first step of sexual awareness relaxation and anxiety unanimously (3-5 days)
Completion of a detailed examination to exclude organic disease, by the guidance of doctors to both husband and wife details of anatomy, physiology and psychology of such knowledge, focuses on the characteristics of male and female sexual response cycle, different sexual expressions and how to arouse sexual excitement and so on. The two sides encourage and guide couples to discuss issues relating to sex in order to seek more consensus. At this stage, both husband and wife sleep in bed the best way was to prohibit sexual intercourse, its purpose is to eliminate the state of anxiety in sexual activity. At the same time, should be some simple psychological relaxation training, in order to further eliminate anxiety and tension.
The second step, non-genital physical and emotional exchanges (3-5 days)
After the completion of the step, both husband and wife without any interference in the Chamber of Secrets lying naked together, to concentrate, talk about everything and nothing to do sex therapy (such as official business or living trivial), concentrating their efforts on caressing and experience. Kissing each other, hugging and touching the body, but be careful not to touch women’s breasts and genitals. Carrying out these activities, you can use a number of intimate exchange of words, and the resulting experience of pleasure and emotional enjoyment of the skin, eliminating the fear and pressure on the sex, so that both husband and wife establish a sense of confidence and intimacy. It is noteworthy that these activities is to increase the feelings of the various parts of the body the ability, not to make sexual intercourse arousal or to meet the need. Although at this stage will always be a sexual excitement, but must not have sexual intercourse, they should focus on the pleasure of the experience of the whole body. In this step the last 1-2 days, can begin to touch the breast, but still avoid contact with the genitals.
The second stage: genital sexy intensive training
The third step is caressing genitals (2-3 days)
Upon completion of the steps based on couples caressing the scope of the two sides can be extended to women’s breasts and genitals, and strive to find their own genitals, the best stimulation point. When the stimulation of sexual organs through their own right to achieve the best sexual pleasure, it should be touching each other’s genitals. In the man touching the woman’s initiative, we should gently caress the vaginal
Around the mouth, the initial stretching should not rush to put your fingers inside the vagina, especially those with vaginismus women, this may give rise to anxiety. When the woman has reached the arousal, the man can gently touch the clitoris, or make the woman uncomfortable. Man not only touching the woman’s genital area, but also touching their breasts, thighs, lower abdomen, buttocks and other various parts of the body. At this point the woman’s language or action can be said he was told when caressing the feelings of the guidelines can also be hand-spouses feel they need to touch the site. When the woman touched the man, it should touch the man’s thigh, lower abdomen, perineum and body departments. Movements should be gentle touch the penis, the scrotum should also touch the woman’s attention from the man’s genitals is also transferred to other parts of the body, and then returned to the genitalia. Both husband and wife can also be used if you wish to perform oral sex caressing manner, but should not be mandatory when a party do not want. At this stage, the couple should also strengthen verbal communication to fully express their feelings in the exercise, but still do not have sexual intercourse, while in operation as much as possible psychosomatic experience the euphoria and gradually bring sexy concentrated on the genitals.
The fourth step, treatment of sexual activity (4-5 days)
After the completion of the above three steps, you can have sexual intercourse activity, but this is not entirely random sexual intercourse, but should be complemented by a different sexual dysfunction a special method of operation. For example: